| I want to offer a special thanks to Jill and Jeff Miksch for 
            sharing their story. 
            Hi Barbara! My husband Jeff and I saw you speak when you came to 
            Sioux City last year! You asked for success stories and I combined 
            ours and included photos! Below is our story ... Hello, my name is Jill Miksch and my husband is 
            Jeff Miksch. I am 33 years old and Jeff is 36 years old. We have 
            been married 2 ½ years and have two children, Christopher who is 8 
            years old and Charlie who is 2 years old. I’m telling our stories together because we 
            have gone through this entire process together. Like most overweight 
            people, we have been heavy since childhood. I was one of the biggest 
            girls in my class. I was taller than most of the boys by 4th 
            grade. I was a size 16/18 by my senior year. Jeff was one of the 
            biggest kids in his class, also, wearing a size 50 pants by his 
            senior year. My weight went up and down during most of my 
            20s. I would try diet after diet (like everyone else who is reading 
            this) and either fail to lose or lose a bit only to gain it back 
            once I “quit” dieting. Jeff’s 20’s were very similar to mine, trying 
            to lose weight only to gain it back plus more. Jeff and I met New Year’s Eve 2001. During 
            2000, I had lost 52 pounds and gotten down to 249 pounds. I was 
            wearing a size 20 and feeling pretty good. By the time I met Jeff, I 
            was up to a size 22 and weighing 270. When I met Jeff, I was a 
            little surprised by his size – we had been talking for a month 
            before we met and I knew he was overweight. I just didn’t know he 
            was a 400+ pound man. I would complain that men never looked past MY 
            size and I felt I would be a hypocrite if I didn’t give Jeff a 
            chance despite his size. (Plus don’t we women always think we can 
            change a man??? It crossed my mind that I could help him lose the 
            weight.) Jeff and I married in September of 2002. We had 
            Charlie in April of 2003. I now weighed 289 pounds. Nursing Charlie 
            was very tough for me, but I stuck it out for 7 months. I was 
            RAVENOUS during that time and successfully put myself over the 
            300-pound mark. I decided to try Weight Watchers again because I was 
            successful with it in 2000. I even got Jeff to join with me. We both 
            lost a modest amount, a drop in the bucket compared to what we 
            needed to lose. We gave up and decided eating DQ Blizzards daily was 
            more fun. I had heard of gastric bypass surgery through 
            articles and TV programs. My mom is a good one for cutting out 
            articles she thinks I need to read and with our weight problems; she 
            would make sure I got all the weight loss surgery ones. I wanted 
            Jeff to consider the surgery, but he never pursued it. With having 2 
            children, I was becoming more and more afraid of Jeff dying before 
            he was 45 due to his size. In April of 2004, I found out about a couple in 
            our town that had  gastric bypass surgery and how great it had 
            been for them. I called the woman and asked who her surgeon was and 
            some general questions. I called the surgeon and signed up for the 
            next information session he was having. I was tired of the back pain 
            and knee pain and heartburn and lack of energy and everything else 
            that comes with being morbidly obese. I told Jeff that I was going 
            to look into the surgery with or without him. He said to sign him 
            up, too. (And I breathed a sigh of relief!!) I think Jeff had an eye opener at the first 
            meeting. His BMI wasn’t even on the chart. He was classified as 
            severely morbidly obese, weighing 440 pounds at 6’2” with a BMI of 
            58. I weighed in at 310 at 6’0” with a BMI of 42. We decided that Jeff should go first. Jeff had 
            laproscopic Roux-en-Y on July 6th, 2004. His first 24 hours were 
            tough, although he does not remember them, but he recovered very 
            quickly with minimal pain. In fact, we went camping 10 days after 
            his surgery! I went three weeks later. I had my laproscopic 
            Roux-en-Y on July 27th, 2004. I, on the other hand, did 
            not recover as quickly and took about 5 weeks to feel better. There 
            is NO WAY in the world I would have been able to go camping 10 days 
            after my surgery!! That just goes to show how different the surgery 
            is for each person. But it has worked and worked well!! At almost 
            10 months out, Jeff has lost an amazing 205 pounds and dropped from 
            a size 66 pants to a size 40!! I am down 114 pounds and have gone 
            from a size 26/28 to a size 12/14!! We both feel fantastic! Jeff is 
            hoping to lose 20 more pounds and I would like to lose 10 more. When 
            we come up on our year in July, we will start the plastic surgery 
            process. Jeff has much more loose skin than I do, so he’ll get to go 
            first again! Would we do it again? Absolutely! Our surgeon, 
            our hospital and our bariatric program have worked together to help 
            us be successful and we plan on keeping it that way! The surgery is 
            NOT the magic cure-all for obesity and we have to work daily to make 
            the right choices to keep the weight off. But one look at our before 
            and after pictures and I think, “It’s worth it!” Jill Mikschjilliebean29@yahoo.com
 
              
              
                
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                   I Need your Input.... I am running short on 
                  success stories! Please consider sharing your success story 
                  with the rest of us.  Write your story like 
                  Jeff and Jill did above 
                  and include your before and after pictures.  I will be happy 
                  to include it in a future issue of this e-newsletter and you 
                  will be inspiring many others.  Thanks 
                  for your help, Barbara |    I love good news.  If you have good news, a 
            success story to share, or inspiration, 
            please send it to me at
            
            Barbara@WLScenter.com so that I can 
            include it in future issues.   |