I want to offer a special thanks to Jill and Jeff Miksch for
sharing their story.
Hi Barbara! My husband Jeff and I saw you speak when you came to
Sioux City last year! You asked for success stories and I combined
ours and included photos! Below is our story ...
Hello, my name is Jill Miksch and my husband is
Jeff Miksch. I am 33 years old and Jeff is 36 years old. We have
been married 2 ½ years and have two children, Christopher who is 8
years old and Charlie who is 2 years old.
I’m telling our stories together because we
have gone through this entire process together. Like most overweight
people, we have been heavy since childhood. I was one of the biggest
girls in my class. I was taller than most of the boys by 4th
grade. I was a size 16/18 by my senior year. Jeff was one of the
biggest kids in his class, also, wearing a size 50 pants by his
senior year.
My weight went up and down during most of my
20s. I would try diet after diet (like everyone else who is reading
this) and either fail to lose or lose a bit only to gain it back
once I “quit” dieting. Jeff’s 20’s were very similar to mine, trying
to lose weight only to gain it back plus more.
Jeff and I met New Year’s Eve 2001. During
2000, I had lost 52 pounds and gotten down to 249 pounds. I was
wearing a size 20 and feeling pretty good. By the time I met Jeff, I
was up to a size 22 and weighing 270. When I met Jeff, I was a
little surprised by his size – we had been talking for a month
before we met and I knew he was overweight. I just didn’t know he
was a 400+ pound man. I would complain that men never looked past MY
size and I felt I would be a hypocrite if I didn’t give Jeff a
chance despite his size. (Plus don’t we women always think we can
change a man??? It crossed my mind that I could help him lose the
weight.)
Jeff and I married in September of 2002. We had
Charlie in April of 2003. I now weighed 289 pounds. Nursing Charlie
was very tough for me, but I stuck it out for 7 months. I was
RAVENOUS during that time and successfully put myself over the
300-pound mark. I decided to try Weight Watchers again because I was
successful with it in 2000. I even got Jeff to join with me. We both
lost a modest amount, a drop in the bucket compared to what we
needed to lose. We gave up and decided eating DQ Blizzards daily was
more fun.
I had heard of gastric bypass surgery through
articles and TV programs. My mom is a good one for cutting out
articles she thinks I need to read and with our weight problems; she
would make sure I got all the weight loss surgery ones. I wanted
Jeff to consider the surgery, but he never pursued it. With having 2
children, I was becoming more and more afraid of Jeff dying before
he was 45 due to his size.
In April of 2004, I found out about a couple in
our town that had gastric bypass surgery and how great it had
been for them. I called the woman and asked who her surgeon was and
some general questions. I called the surgeon and signed up for the
next information session he was having. I was tired of the back pain
and knee pain and heartburn and lack of energy and everything else
that comes with being morbidly obese. I told Jeff that I was going
to look into the surgery with or without him. He said to sign him
up, too. (And I breathed a sigh of relief!!)
I think Jeff had an eye opener at the first
meeting. His BMI wasn’t even on the chart. He was classified as
severely morbidly obese, weighing 440 pounds at 6’2” with a BMI of
58. I weighed in at 310 at 6’0” with a BMI of 42.
We decided that Jeff should go first. Jeff had
laproscopic Roux-en-Y on July 6th, 2004. His first 24 hours were
tough, although he does not remember them, but he recovered very
quickly with minimal pain. In fact, we went camping 10 days after
his surgery!
I went three weeks later. I had my laproscopic
Roux-en-Y on July 27th, 2004. I, on the other hand, did
not recover as quickly and took about 5 weeks to feel better. There
is NO WAY in the world I would have been able to go camping 10 days
after my surgery!! That just goes to show how different the surgery
is for each person.
But it has worked and worked well!! At almost
10 months out, Jeff has lost an amazing 205 pounds and dropped from
a size 66 pants to a size 40!! I am down 114 pounds and have gone
from a size 26/28 to a size 12/14!! We both feel fantastic! Jeff is
hoping to lose 20 more pounds and I would like to lose 10 more. When
we come up on our year in July, we will start the plastic surgery
process. Jeff has much more loose skin than I do, so he’ll get to go
first again!
Would we do it again? Absolutely! Our surgeon,
our hospital and our bariatric program have worked together to help
us be successful and we plan on keeping it that way! The surgery is
NOT the magic cure-all for obesity and we have to work daily to make
the right choices to keep the weight off. But one look at our before
and after pictures and I think, “It’s worth it!”
Jill Miksch
jilliebean29@yahoo.com
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I Need your Input....
I am running short on
success stories! Please consider sharing your success story
with the rest of us. Write your story like
Jeff and Jill did above
and include your before and after pictures. I will be happy
to include it in a future issue of this e-newsletter and you
will be inspiring many others.
Thanks
for your help,
Barbara |
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success story to share, or inspiration,
please send it to me at
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