| __/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/ WLS Center E-NewsletterA FREE publication by
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 Issue # 27, July 1, 2003
 Circulation: 8,282
 __/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/__/ From the Desk of Barbara ThompsonAuthor of "Weight Loss Surgery, Finding the Thin Person Hiding 
            Inside You"
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 * Survey: Newsletter Frequency* FAQ: Watching our Children Grow
 * Eating While Traveling: Readers Responses
 * Live Broadcast of a Lap RNY Procedure
 * Announcing the Third Edition
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 ** Survey: Newsletter Frequency **
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 The results are in and the overwhelming vote was to have the 
            newsletter appear twice a month in a shorter version. Now I just 
            hope that I don’t get too long winded and end up with 2 very long 
            newsletters! ========================================** FAQ: 
            Watching Our Children Grow **
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 I received this question recently and it touches on what many of 
            us face in regards to our children, so I wanted to share it with all 
            of you. Dear Barbara, I recently heard you speak at Latrobe Hospital in March. You were 
            wonderful! I got good advice and information.  I have lost 140 pounds in 9 months and am thrilled with my 
            progress, as is my family. But I am concerned about my 15 year old 
            daughter who has genetic tendencies for obesity from both sides of 
            the family. We now wear the same size and she is very upset about 
            that. She refuses to take my advice about eating and in the last 2 
            days she has eaten nothing but junk food. I was upset because there 
            is a lot of much healthier food in the house to eat. I don’t know 
            what to do. I want to help her to not get any heavier. She has 
            gained about 30 pounds since Christmas. I have tried to explain how 
            unhappy I was all through school and college because of my weight. 
            She just doesn’t want to hear it. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks,Susan
 Answer: I know it is heartbreaking to see your child headed for the same 
            problems that you faced.  But most of us were lectured and 
            yelled at by our parents, some were even made fun of.  Yet it 
            made no difference. If anything, it probably made the situation 
            worse.  I am a great believer in positive reinforcement and setting an 
            example. Let your daughter know when you are exercising and let her 
            see you eat healthy food.  And when she does anything positive, 
            like eat a salad or exercise, then praise her.  Don't say, 
            "It's about time that you are doing that."  Just help her to 
            feel good about herself. She knows what she is doing.  She is 
            (like we were) unable to control it at this time.  At least you 
            know that should she become morbidly obese, there is a solution for 
            her.  In the meantime, show her as much love as you can for the 
            person that she is inside.  ========================================** Eating While on Vacation **
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 I received some excellent responses on the subject of eating 
            while on vacation that I posed in last month’s issue. There were 
            many suggestions that I will use on my next trip! Here they are: When eating out, order a protein-based appetizer and a side salad 
            and you have more than enough for a meal. I find it difficult not to 
            gorge myself on a dinner, so this built-in portion control works 
            nicely for me.  --Betty * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * I travel a lot on business, often for a week at a time and here's 
            I do: Upon arriving at my destination I find the closest grocery store 
            and buy the following items: ** Rye crisp and peanut butter (great for breakfast or a snack)
            ** A couple of apples, bananas or small pop-top cans of fruit in 
            juice (which I drain or rinse out)
 ** Small cans of chicken, turkey, or tuna
 ** Knife, fork and spoon (disposable if I don't have checked 
            baggage)
 ** Splenda or Sweet & Low
 ** Herbal tea
 ** Baby carrots and a green pepper that I slice into strips
 ** Bottled water
 ** Raw, unsalted nuts
 None of these items require refrigeration and they hold up well 
            in the ice bucket. Dinner is usually the only meal I eat out when I'm on the road 
            and then my favorites are the appetizers, fish, shrimp, crab, or 
            anything with ground meat and no pasta, and hearty soups. If I have a refrigerator available I take the leftovers back to 
            the hotel for a meal another night. Most hotels have microwaves in 
            the lobby area if not in the room. I've even reheated soups 
            (non-cream-based only) by putting them in the coffee pot and on a 
            pre-heated warmer. Do not pour through the machine!!! Hope this helps! Edie Payleitner * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * In response to your travel tips, recently I drove from Atlanta to 
            Philadelphia. In the past I would stop at fast food places along the 
            way for meals just to keep driving.  This time I packed a 
            cooler with fat free cheese, yogurt, cottage cheese, and applesauce 
            - all the staples I use to on my diet and in keeping on the plan. I 
            continued to lose weight. I made sure I had taken enough so I had 
            some while visiting my sister and did not have to worry her with my 
            food needs. I did the same for the return trip home. Patricia Wills * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Hi Barbara, I had lap RNY surgery on March 11th of this year, and I am 
            already 72 pounds lighter. My tip for vacation travel is, if you are 
            taking a cooler for your water bottles, 
            freeze the bottles first (you might want to empty just a little of 
            the water before you freeze them so they don't break). The water 
            will have ice in it most of the day, and the ice in your cooler will 
            last a lot longer and it will help to keep your other stuff cold. 
            The water will stay nice and cold for a long time. Lori Durbin * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * You can purchase a heater/cooler for about $80 at Wal-Mart or 
            Target.  They will hold enough food if you need to keep it warm 
            till a certain time or cold in the hotel.  It uses the
            power from your car so it isn't that inconvenient.  I am 
            going to get one for me. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * In your newsletter you advised in a hotel room with a mini bar, 
            emptying it out and using it for your 
            food...I would advise AGAINST that.  Many hotel mini
            bars use a security system that uses sensors to see if 
            anything is removed from them and the room 
            is then charged for these items.  This was a VERY costly lesson I learned while staying in a hotel recently.  I removed the 
            items from the mini bar and used it to 
            hold my food during my stay.  Imagine my shock when I
            received a bill for these items...almost $75.00 worth.  
            You might want to warn people if they are 
            going to use that method to have the hotel come in and
            clear out the mini bar them selves instead of the guest doing 
            it. It can be quite costly!!! ========================================** Live Broadcast of a Lap RNY 
            Procedure **
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 Here is an announcement for an event that has already happened. 
            Although the live broadcast is over, you can access the tape of the 
            broadcast for the next month by going to the indicated web address. June 23, 2003 - New York City Surgeon to Perform Weight Loss 
            Surgery Live on the Internet Popular NBC weatherman Al Roker continues to shed pounds since he 
            underwent a popular weight loss surgical procedure last year known 
            as gastric bypass surgery. His ongoing success with weight loss is 
            easy for millions of American television watchers to see. But now, 
            the American public can view the actual surgery, performed via a 
            live Webcast from Beth Israel Medical Center in New York City, on 
            June 23 from 5pm to 6pm EDT.  James (Butch) Rosser, MD, director of minimally invasive surgery 
            at Beth Israel, who himself underwent bariatric surgery in August 
            2001 (and has since lost 150 pounds), will perform the surgery, 
            which is designed for the more than five million Americans who 
            suffer from clinically severe, or morbid, obesity. Dr. Rosser will 
            perform the surgery via a minimally invasive procedure known as 
            laparoscopy, where several, small surgical incisions are made 
            instead of one long incision, as in conventional “open” surgery. The 
            result is significantly less post-operative pain, risk of infection 
            and recovery time.  Gastric bypass surgery has been endorsed by the National 
            Institutes of Health (NIH), the World Health Organization, The 
            American Obesity Association, the Heart Association, and Shape Up 
            America.  To Access the Broadcast:
            http://www.or-live.com/bethisrael/1111 ======================================== ** Announcing the Third Edition **
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 I am very excited to announce that we are now shipping the 3rd 
            edition of my book!! I know that many of you have waited eagerly for 
            this update of my popular weight loss surgery guidebook and it is 
            now available!!!  The 3rd Edition features an extensive revision of the vitamin 
            section, an expanded section on the lap band so that both sides of 
            the surgery option issue are represented, and new information on how 
            occupational therapy can help a patient..  I am happy to be able to keep this book updated with the most 
            current information available.  If you do not have your copy of my book “Weight Loss Surgery; 
            Finding the Thin Person Hiding Inside You,” what are you waiting 
            for? Many surgeons all across the country will not allow their 
            patients to have the surgery unless they have read my book.
            Click 
            Here to order your copy. ========================================** Success Stories Wanted **
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 I am getting desperately low on Success Stories. I know there are 
            thousands of you who have stories to share that will inspire others.
            
            Click Here to see past success stories. 
            Click on any of the names to see examples of success stories, write 
            yours and send it to me with your before and after picture in an 
            attached file or send the pictures to me at 488 Diablo Drive, 
            Pittsburgh, PA 15241.  Email your story to me at 
            Barbara@wlscenter.com so that I can include it in future issues.  |